Hi there, thank you so much for your input. My apologies for upsetting you, I have referenced the psychological journal articles as underlined and as I clearly state in my articles, not all personality disorders fit the research. I have little interest in diagnosing my ex, I’ve never watched Fatal Attraction and could you please point out where I’m sexist in this? If you would like to check my covert v sociopath article too, you will find more journal articles that show covert (vulnerable) narcissists do fear abandonment and grandiose narcissists do not. I shall use the correct full term so as to be clearer in future. I will go through the rest of your response as soon as possible. Again, thank you:):)