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Narcissistic Abuse.
“I Do So Much For Everybody Else.”
If they’re moaning about helping, they’re not helping.
When a person without narcissism lends a hand, it is done and everyone gets to go on with their day.
But when a narcissist lends a hand, the whole world hears about it, it will be like a trophy on their mantlepiece, they’ll even add ribbons to that undeserved trophy.
Narcissists are the type of people who act like they saved your life because they gave you their parking space which they were about to leave anyway.
“If you’re not helping to make it right, then stop complaining about it being wrong.”
People who complain about helping others are idiots even if they’re not narcissists. If you don’t like helping others, don’t do it.
Nobody wants to hear about what a big hero you are, nor do they need your self-inflicted victim status.
Narcissists don’t do anything for anyone else that doesn’t come with repercussions and a manuscript.
Your repercussions will far outweigh anything they ever did for you, and you and everyone else will hear about what they did for you for the rest of their lives.
