Oh my goodness, she sounds like work and then some! It is stressful when they’re family, while most people can walk away, the family can’t do that as easily. I had the same thing with my children’s father, asking for money, couldn’t help with the children in any way, then would turn up in brand new clothes head to toe, it’s like dealing with spoiled brats. I hope everything with your husband is ok now and I’m sorry to hear what you’re going through. Thank you for sharing.