Opinion.

We Should Care About What Other People Think Of Us.

A phrase that can justify narcissism.

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You can not build strong and lasting relationships by going around not giving a damn what people think of you, there has to be a level of respect that says I do care about what you have to say and how I make you feel.

“One of the sincerest forms of respect is actually listening to what another has to say.” — Bryant H. McGill.

Let’s face it, some people who don’t worry about what other people think, should. Criminals should worry about what judges think. Alcoholic, abusive, or neglectful parents need to worry about what their kids think. I could go on, it’s not a phrase that suits a lot of situations.

“Don’t worry what other people think of you” is not letting others' opinions, or even the opinions you’re imagining, prevent you from being you, achieving your goals, and living your best life.

A lot of bad decisions come from not caring what other people think. Deciding to lie, blame, manipulate, control, and abuse other people is intentional and harmful; and caring about what others think could prevent such harm, along with the personal and social consequences.